Don't Misunderstand A Woman

Don’t misunderstand a woman when she loves you with all her heart and soul. If she fights with you and then cries and says sorry it doesn’t mean she is weak - it’s because she values the relationship she shares with you and she thinks you are worthy of being together. Don’t get angry with her when she is jealous of your friends because maybe it means she loves you too much and she can’t see you spending your time with anyone other than her. Don’t get irritated when she is possessive because maybe she wants to explain that you are her world and she cannot share you with anyone else. Don’t ignore her if she is nagging for silly things because maybe she needs your attention. If you love a woman don’t ignore her - show her that you care for her. When a woman gets attention from her man and feels appreciated for her little things, she can love him back in a million ways and much more than you can even imagine in your wildest dreams…

You Can Heal Your Life With Positive Affirmations

We are each 100% responsible for all of our experiences. Every thought we think is creating our future. The point of power is always in the present moment. Everyone suffers from self-hatred, guilt and resentment which are very damaging patterns. Releasing resentment will dissolve even cancer. We must release the past and forgive everyone. We must be willing to begin to learn to love ourselves. Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the key to positive changes. Put another way, our subconscious mind accepts whatever we choose to believe. They both mean that what I believe about myself and my life becomes true for me. What you choose to think about yourself and life becomes true for you. We have unlimited choices about what we can think. When we know this, then it makes sense to choose “Everyone is always helpful” rather than “People are out to get me”.

Whenever we are ill we need to search our hearts to see who it is we need to forgive. Forgiveness means giving up and letting go. It has nothing to do with condoning behaviour. It’s just letting the whole thing go. We do not have to know HOW to forgive. All we need is to be WILLING to forgive. The Universe will take care of the “how’s”. People have a lot of problems – it could be poor health, lack of money, unfulfilling relationships, or stifled creativity – whatever the issue is can only be resolved or dissolved with LOVING the self. I find that when we really love and accept and APPROVE of ourselves exactly as we are, then everything in life works. It’s as if little miracles are everywhere. Our health improves, we attract more money, our relationships become much more fulfilling, and we express ourselves in creatively fulfilling ways. All this seems to happen without our even trying. Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the main keys to positive changes in every area of our lives. We must however first address the issues that caused us to feel that we could not have self-approval or self-acceptance and that all goes back to our beliefs. Whatever we believe becomes true for us. If you have a sudden financial disaster, then on some level you may believe you are unworthy of being comfortable with money, or you believe in burdens and debt. Or if you believe that nothing good ever lasts, do you believe that life is out to get you or “I just can’t win”. If you seem unable to attract a relationship, you may believe “Nobody loves me” or “I am unlovable”. Perhaps you fear being dominated as your mother was or you think “People just hurt me”. If you have poor health you may believe “Illness runs in our family” or even “I was born to suffer” or “It’s just one thing after another”. Perhaps you are not even aware of your belief. Many people are not, they just see their outer circumstances as being the way the cookie crumbles. Until you realise the connection between the outer experiences and the inner thoughts, you remain a victim for life.

PROBLEM                                                                                            BELIEF

Financial disaster                                                                              I am not worthy of having money

No friends                                                                                           Nobody loves me

Problems with work                                                                       I’m not good enough

Always pleasing others                                                                  I never get my way

Whatever the problem is, it comes from a thought pattern, and thought patterns can be changed! Ask yourself “What kinds of thoughts am I having that create this?”. If you allow yourself to sit quietly and ask this question, your inner intelligence will show you the answer.

Are you one of the many people who will get up in the morning, see that it is raining, and say “Oh, what a lousy day!” It is NOT a lousy day. It is only a wet day. If we wear the appropriate clothing and change our attitude, we can have a lot of rainy day fun. If it is really our belief that rainy days are lousy days, then we will always greet rain with a sinking heart. We will fight the day rather than flow with what is happening in the moment. If we want a joyous life, we must think joyous thoughts. If we want a prosperous life, we must think prosperous thoughts. If we want a loving life, we must think loving thoughts. Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form.

The point of power is always in the present moment. It does not matter how long we have had a negative pattern or an illness or a poor relationship or lack of finances or self-hatred. We can begin to make a shift today! What you are now choosing to believe and think and say will create the next moment and the next day and the next month and the next year. You are the power in your world! You get to have whatever you choose to think.

Stop for a moment and catch your thought. What are you thinking right now? If it is true that your thoughts shape your life, would you want what you were just thinking right now to become true for you? If it’s a thought of worry or anger or hurt or revenge or fear, how do you think this thought will come back to you? If you find yourself expressing negative words of any sort, stop in midsentence, either rephrase the sentence of just drop it. You could even say to it “Out”.

To change your beliefs use positive affirmations daily. Say them over to yourself whenever you can. Even write them out ten times at night before going to bed. You will note a remarkable shift.  Some examples of affirmations you could use:

I am healthy.

I am healed.

I am loved.

I am wealthy.

I am extremely successful.

HORROR OF HORRORS…A LUMP IN MY BREAST!!

Please be advised that I have removed my blogs relating to my diagnosis of Breast Cancer to a new blog. For those who are interested you can read the journey of my health challenge on www.Lump-In-My-Breast.blogspot.com

Time Waits For No Man

Time waits for no man. Or so they say. Presumably, it waits for no woman either. And anyway, how do they know? Have they interrogated time? Have they asked it to keep a diary of its movements? Have they followed it around with a stopwatch to see what it does each day? We think we know a lot about time, but actually, we know very little. Sometimes it seems as if time may have just been waiting after all.

The Lover's Tarot Card

The Lover’s Tarot Card

Tarot has always fascinated me. I have always known the more “conventional” meaning of the Lover’s tarot card but I came across this interpretation this evening of the Lover’s tarot card which I found quite interesting. What is said here I can truly relate to, as I am sure, many of you reading this, will agree that you feel the same. For those of you who can relate, take note of the very last paragraph…now that really makes you think. In the last paragraph is a very strong message…basically coming down to the fact that you really have to make sure of the choice you make…make the wrong choice and you could regret it forever…so think carefully before you make your final choice!

Basic Tarot Meaning for the Lover’s tarot card – information from aeclectic.net

New readers often ask, "What is the Lovers' card about? Is it about finding love?" Yes, and no. It is possible that the original name of this card was "Love." The oldest decks call it "The amorous one," The Lovers being a mistranslation. So really, it's about one person being "in love" with someone or something.

Many books, however, define the card not as "Love" but as a "choice." And the images that have been used for this card make it even more confusing. The original trump featured a man and a woman with a cupid above them about to shoot his dart (into which? Cupid's arrows only make the one they strike fall in love). Later decks had a man choosing between two women, or a man meeting his true love with the help of a matchmaker. Still later, with Rider Waite, we have an Angel above Adam and Eve. The Angel stands for Raphael, who is emblematic of Mercury and Air, with Adam and Eve related to Gemini (sign of Mercury) in that Eve split from Adam and is, essentially, his twin.

And the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge indicates Adam and Eve choosing to "know" each other in every sense of the word.

This connection to Gemini means that the Lovers card is NOT about "romance" or passion. Romantic emotions are typically related to water. And blazing passion is associated with fire. Gemini, an air sign, is about messages and making contact. It's about the psyche.

In addition, at #6 the Lover's card is about "harmony." Thus, it is about something that speaks to you, that you "know" and recognize as your other or mirror self (twin), and which makes you feel harmonically balanced or complete. You may experience this psychic attraction to something small like a pair of shoes you have to have, or a rock band whose music says all you ever wanted to say. Or you might be drawn to something huge, a plot of land you want to own, or someone else's boyfriend/girlfriend who, at first sight, makes you think: "That's my husband/wife."

In interpretation, the card indicates that the querent has come across, or will come across a person, career, challenge or thing (a puppy, a car, a house) that they will fall in love with. They will know instinctively that it was meant for them, even if it means diverging from their chosen path (that is the "Love" part). On the other hand, their common sense must also make a decision on whether or not to go along with this psychic "choice." There is often a measure of hardship or cost that comes with giving into this spiritual attraction.

The Lovers' card often confuses readers as its most common interpretation is about making a choice. If we examine it closer, we see this does go along with the name (or mis-name of the card). Two choices are involved with the card. First, your soul or psyche is making its choice. It recognizes this other person/thing as being your spiritual twin or as harmonizing with you; you become "amorous" for it.

Now the rest of you, the demands of your life, your emotional heart, passionate soul, can agree or not. That's the other choice. You will feel powerfully drawn to this career, challenge, person or thing so much so that, no matter how scary, how difficult, irrational or troublesome, you will be inclined to go for it. This is LOVE. But you will also know that it comes at a cost. Maybe the person you're attracted to isn't a romantic and your dreams of a wine-and-roses love affair can't be. Maybe they don't set you on fire and you can't have the passion you want. Or maybe this thing/person is just inconvenient.

Your friends and family may also weigh in. They may think you're crazy, may argue with you not to get involved. You, yourself, might think its madness to change your life or break with your community in order to have this. Coming after the Emperor with his imperial rules, and after the Hierophant with his communal faith, The Lovers acknowledges a spiritual power that often defies earthly laws and religious traditions. Obeying this urge can be foolish, dangerous, selfish, thoughtless, earth-shattering.

Yet you can say "no" to this attraction. You do have that choice. If, however, you don't allow yourself to try and make this person, career, challenge or thing a part of your life, you may regret it, profoundly and forever.

Quiero Decirte Que Te Amo

Desde el ruido del mundo
Desde el giro de un carrusel
De la piel a lo mas ondo, desde el fondo de mi ser
De este inutil orgullo, y del silencio que hay en mi
Desde estas ganas mias de vivir

Quiero decirte que Te Amo
Quiero decirte que eres mio
Que no te cambio por ninguno
Que por tenerte desvario
Quiero decirte que Te Amo
Porque eres tan igual a mi
Cuando por nada discutimos
Y luego te cierras en ti
De el peor de mis fallos
De un error por el que page
De un telefono del centro
De mis ganas de vencer
De la dicha que siento
Y de esta fiebre mia por ti
Desde que me enseñaste a sonreir

Quiero decirte que Te Amo
Quiero decirte que estoy aqui
Aunque me aleje de tu lado
Tras la ventana de un taxi
Debo decirte que Te Amo
Porque es mi unica verdad
Tu no me sueltes de la mano
Aunque podamos terminar

Desde el blanco de la pagina
Desde mi fragilidad
Desde mi carta te cuento de mi sinceridad

Quiero decirte que Te Amo
Quiero decirte que eres mio
Que no te cambio por ninguno
Que por tenerte desvario

Quiero decirte que Te Amo
Quiero decirte estoy aqui
Aunque me aleje de tu lado
Tras la ventana de un taxi
...y quiero decirte que ..que no te cambio por ninguno
porque eres TODO, yo porque....

Quiero decirte que Te Amo
TE AMO.........

Good Things Outnumber The Bad

If life were entirely devoid of hope, joy and justice, all of us would soon lose heart. We keep on going because we know that this is not the case. We are just as encouraged by the ups as we are disappointed by the downs. Indeed, though we generally prefer to avoid keeping a running tally, we are inclined to suspect that the good things outnumber the bad, quite possibly by a considerable margin. On what is your optimism based? Blind faith? Or wise experience? Trust what inspires you the most.