People have asked me if I were to get married again and my future husband has a child or children from either a previous relationship or marriage, would I accept them? I don't even have to think about that as the answer would be yes. That is IF I were to find a man that proposed to me :D. Many years ago when I got divorced my son was only 18 months old. Those years men were not prepared to accept another man's child. I had huge issues with men just because I had a son. My motto was - that if they could not accept that I have a son, then they were not worth it. I did have a relationship where my partner at that time also had a son. Kelly was about two months younger than Jason. For a whole year that little boy was a part of my life every second weekend when it was his turn to be with his father. I loved and cared for him! When the relationship ended, it was difficult. I missed Kelly something terrible and so did Jason. But we had to move on. I have never had an issue with other people's children. When my nephew Donovan married Julie. Julie had a little girl from her previous marriage. At that time Jamie was 2 years old. Our whole family accepted Jamie including me. Donovan and Julie are now getting divorced and it has affected me big time because again, I miss Jamie. She is now 6 years old. I cannot imagine how broken her little heart must be. It is sad. She cannot understand why it is that Hayden, Donovan and Julie's little boy - my great nephew - now goes to Donovan for weekends and she can't go with. Oh gosh, just writing that has brought tears to my eyes!! Crap - I am such a softy sometimes! teeheeheee Anyway, my answer to the question is - yes, should I ever be in that position, I would accept a child or children from a previous relationship or marriage. I have always wanted a family of my own. I do have my son and I do have my sisters, nephews etc but I am talking about having my very "own" family. A husband. I have always wanted a husband. If he has a child or children that would be a bonus!! It would be wonderful having a happy, loving family :D
Once again hitting the nail on the head! Advice that was much needed by me on this day...
Today's Daily Angel Card Message for November 30, 2016
Some revelation suddenly occurs to you to help you finally get clear of a passing storm in your life. It was a passing storm no matter how long it seemed it would remain. Sometimes situations in our lives create a feeling of permanence, which causes you to overreact or struggle against it. This struggle only prolongs the experience beyond its need, while overshadowing what is surfacing as a solution. Be careful not to hold onto the obstacle hindering your vision of an opportunity in your midst, especially when you can sense something better on the horizon. It may not come easily to you to let go, or to remove your heels once you have dug in deep. At this point, it would be better if you did instead of being yanked from the circumstances by the force of your own soul's inertia. You can choose to remain where you are, even if you are opposing your own momentum. However, the desire to transition, from your higher self’s purpose, will eventually win out, as you are always in agreement and wishing for the fulfillment of your own happiness. Although, you may not feel ready for what's coming, and in some instances, what's already happening, take advantage of what you are receiving. You don't have to digest the whole thing at once. Take a piece at a time, and more importantly, only the pieces in front of you at the moment. The rest will sort itself when the time comes, and you'll know what to do then, as well.
The angels present this number (932), as a reassurance that this opportunity is meant. It says, “Trust that the ascended masters are helping your career and Divine life purpose, because they are.” I feel they are especially making it clear that a revelation, a solution, or opportunity you've received is the answer to a prayer you've been seeking to confirm. There's no reason or need for you to be going in circles continuously about this. This is it. You may be uncomfortable with the answer, but it does not make it less meaningful. Your doubts are a tool of procrastination. Instead of trying to avoid making mistakes, and wondering “what if” this happens or not, focus on what is possible based on what you have been given. Now is the time to deal with the facts and the tangible results in reach for you to seize. Step by step, you can increase your confidence in your life and your readiness to move ahead on your goals. It's unwise to think that you could smooth out all the wrinkles before making a decision or taking action. There is no path that comes without them. They serve a good purpose, which in time you will be able to see. Nothing is reasonably apparent when you would like it. However, the less you resist, the more you can expect to discover it more easily in time.
There isn't just one decision or purpose that will ensue throughout the course of events, which are to follow from this immediate point. Those future outcomes will unfold new or greater developments from the advantages surrounding the plot you're currently working on, which have also brought you to this moment. Instead of beating the bush to death for all the outstanding particulars involving the future, look for the highlights of all you were hoping for now. This will help calm your anxieties, which are exacerbated from using this approach. Your “mental aches” or headaches will subside as you focus more on present decisions, rather than the future ones. Likewise, don't worry about the problems in your life that seem too overwhelming and complex to fix. Give space to others, and let them resolve their own problems. You can't help someone unless they are ready to receive it. Their choices don't have to determine what your outcome will be. You may experience influences resulting from the side effects of their actions, but you can use them to help you to get clarity about your own stance in that moment. Instead of holding resistance, in response, channel your creativity in a direction that encourages your own alignment in this process. As you can imagine this happening, you will receive insights and instructions to make your vision a reality.
You may find yourself vacillating between worry and excitement. In the period, you are witnessing the tides of change and the possibilities, which can unfold. It's like a tipping point and you must steady the hands of change through your trust in the strength of your passions and impulses. Stop trying to predict your future and start living out the best choices for the moments available to you right now. It's not about a win for the future. You can experience a win, now! In fact, you do, but you are too busy being disappointed about the past and future to notice. If you pay attention long enough, you'll recognize the support around you, which is always showing up when you least expect it. The symbolism of these varied gifts is love. When you get out of your own way and follow the path you're on, you are walking in alignment with your true purpose and the rewards of happiness it brings. Don't decide between this or that thing, or an achievement. Make the decision that makes you as happy as you can know of, right now! May the Source be with you always!
I am so impressed with myself! I always considered myself as being a "boffin" on a computer...:D...I taught myself just about everything from excel formulas to power point presentations...you name it. Then there I was...I used to envy people that were very technosavvy with their cell phones. I just was not technosavvy in that respect. I even despised whatsapp. And now? Well here I am now and I have to laugh. A month ago I was still using an old, decrepit blackberry!! To give you an idea...when I did use whatsapp I would get a message saying that after 31 December 2016 I would no longer be able to use whatsapp on the phone and would need to upgrade to another device. Here I am now, I have my tablet in one hand and my new smartphone in the other...a pen stuck behind my ear or between my teeth and I am juggling between the two devices! I now have an instagram account too and am posting on linkedin. I have a fantastic app with which I am doing video and e-mail campaigning for my new business...and the best is...I can do it from anywhere in the world...well ok...at this point I am only talking about my local location...but I really could do this from anywhere in the world. I find that so awesome!! To top it all I now use whatsapp too to do my business...what an absolute pleasure being able to phone people using whatsapp. I could not do that with my ancient phone and people could also not call me on whatsapp either!! :D I do conference calling and I am able to view messages from my mentor on periscope.tv. Incredible how technology has improved the lives of so many!! Am I impressed with myself...you bet I am...teeheeeheee....
Last month’s emotional encounters have created new and unique circumstances for you. New ideas are flowing and unexpected avenues are opening up. You have accomplished a lot, but this is only a stepping stone to greater possibilities. This is a cycle of beginnings, change, independence, originality, and self-acceptance.
This new phase of your life is likely to start with the feeling of standing alone, feeling your own pulse, your own energy, your own satisfaction, and the power that comes when you truly understand something that you previously did not understand at all. Knowledge IS power. And you probably know that this marvelous feeling of being alive can only be maintained when you are being yourself.
Doors are opening that were not open to you before. “As one door closes, another opens”, the saying goes. The problem is that we often cannot see the open doors because we are still focused on the ones that have closed. Allow the doors of the past to close completely – and then see the enormous potential that lies ahead. This can only be done by expressing the feelings – from the past – that you are still holding inside.
You are in very different territory now. Stay constantly aware of your new position. There is no need to prove how clever you are. In fact, you stand to learn a lot more by assuming that you do not know enough. The emphasis is on you: your individuality; your special abilities; your needs and desires.
Accept yourself, faults and all, exactly as you are. Nobody’s perfect. Only by accepting your faults can you ever hope to change them, so do not judge yourself too harshly for having them. Give yourself credit for what you have learned and, in some cases, un-learned. This level of self-respect will enable you to respect the individuality, faults, and abilities of the people with whom you are now dealing, and to realize that we are all in the learning stages of how to live, no matter what qualifications, claims to fame, or titles we may possess.
You may experience a positive jolt of energy this month which comes from something that is entirely new to you. You are reaching a new level of understanding and, yes, one person can make a difference.
The experience of feeling yourself evolve into higher consciousness is the ‘new beginning’ November has in mind for you, regardless of what else is taking place on a physical, commercial, or global level. This involves a feeling you will want to repeat often because, quite simply, it feels so good.
Simultaneously however, you are being pulled towards next year’s 9 energy – a 12 month cycle that will bring a complete cycle of nine years to an end, and will emphasize the unresolved issues of your entire lifetime.
November’s powerful combination of energies enables you to visualize your life as one continuing journey, with each event of the past leading to where you are today. And, from where you are today, you can hear the call, and you can feel the exciting lure, of where you want to go from here. This is the call of your Will – your feminine energy – and you need to listen to it more attentively than ever before!
I really love when I find a message that inspires me. The messages I have read lately all somehow feel that they are directed at me with regards to career. I love how there is always some advice that I can take from these messages...always something to help me along my path. Man, I feel really good!!
Today's Angel Card Message for Monday, October 24, 2016 It seems that you are feeling really good about a few things in your life and some decisions you've made. However, you may have some interference coming from loved ones and friends, because they don't agree wholeheartedly with the direction you're taking. This is placing you in a very vulnerable position, because it's questioning for you what your heart is compelling you to do. You have resorted to keep it hidden from them until you can get more comfortable with the choice you've made. Meanwhile, you've created a wonderful world where no one else exists and neither does their two cents of input! You feel really good about what you are doing and enjoying. Your soul is alive and your pulse for your life purpose is strong. This situation may also involve a romantic relationship. Although you have a solid connection developing between you, it's time to start looking at where this is seriously going. The only way to discover that is to see how it perseveres in the actual journey of your lives together and individually. Your heart's potential is open to successful outcomes. Whether you are pursuing a relationship or a career, a path is unfolding for you to channel what you have learned into really sustainable, stable, and prosperous opportunities!
Standing before you is a gateway into a whole new paradigm of existence and consciousness. It's a new world order, where you're truly ruling your reality from the heart. Your heart is orchestrating completely new conditions, as this Emperor is possibly exemplifying by the symbols of his reign. Your thoughts and actions are not solely dictated by reason and logic, but also motivated by your passions. They matter and are given more prominence in your decisions, as they rightly should. This card, in this regard, is also saying that you are doing what is best for you, and that you are learning to follow the structure and direction that your soul's path has carved out for you. It's also saying that you are not taking a back seat anymore, and that you are partnering and participating more consciously in the choices and developments of this divine plan. New foundations are being placed to stabilize the core of your connection with your higher self, and within the core of your relationships. As this expands, you come to realize that there was never an intention to separate you from the world of your Source and the physical world you interact with. This partnership and connection was provided to enhance and to secure your existence within the universal framework of life.
A fundamental issue is to play down the resourcefulness and powerful tools of your intuition’s ability to assist you in practical decision-making. It's not something that has an on and off switch. To deny its value is impractical and unreasonable. Its purpose is not only to inform you of what's ahead. It's sole reason is to constantly remind you of who you really are, and what it is you desire, that makes you feel happy and valued. There is no greater purpose for your divine guidance. It's a compass that knows “locations” (as in situations, relationships, environments) where you are most fulfilled and successful. These “locations” are vibrational realities where the potential is active, realized, embraced, supported, nurtured, and sustained by your inner being. A perfectly formulated and constructed well made plan is waiting for you to seek it out and experience it. Of course, this is not always easy to do, when there are too many other voices and other types of distractions occupying our minds and attention. The Emperor is asking you to stick to the well laid out plan of your heart, which may mean setting boundaries, making a schedule to curb idleness and frivolity, and being firm and determined.
The Emperor may indicate that you have great ideas floating around, but you aren't making any concrete plans or decisions to develop them into tangible goals. Perhaps, you are afraid to ask for help or seek out some advice from an expert. If you have issues with authority and giving up control, this is going to create an obstacle or some form of stagnation in your process. No one is going to steal your idea and alter it somehow. It's clear that you need some form of assistance, recommendations, or insights to expand your experience or goals. No one ever does anything completely without others. There's a reason why each of us has a speciality or a unique perspective that another doesn't have necessarily in the exact same way. Our diversity is there to bring options we couldn't have explored or expected, otherwise. You need the interaction to spark new ideas, and to possibly renew your motivation and passion. You have a strong desire, but you're lacking will and conviction to follow through. It's time for you to come down from those clouds, and begin building connections to help you get things done.
If you are dating or have been admiring from afar, it's time for you to implement the steps you have been guided to take. This goes for anything. Your focus of inadequacy is disabling you from experiencing the happiness you seek. It doesn't matter what you are thinking in your head. What matters is what you are hearing in your heart. Trust it. Don't worry about the outcome. The outcome is not the practical purpose of the action step. The universe always has a strategy to help you get uncomfortable being in your shell. You want to move from one shell to another, and have it always be and feel comfortable. But, what if being comfortable is the crutch? What if it's keeping you stuck in a similar pattern or environment, where you aren't gaining any real knowledge and understanding of who you are potentially? What if you you being comfortable is what's really making life uninteresting and unsatisfactory for you? So, what if it doesn't turn out the way you hoped? Look at it as an opportunity to discover another aspect of your strengths and weaknesses you weren't aware of, and that you have a chance to try something different. These experiences offer you an opportunity to refine yourself, in order to better align with your true purpose, passion, and potential.
Instead of taking action, based on an expected outcome, make the success of your goal purely about trusting your instincts and wisdom. You have to be able to rely on them as a Emperor in order to gain experience. For example, you're guided to apply for a higher position in your job. The outcome is obviously to be hired. Yet, the focus from your angel's perspective was to apply, because you deserve to know your potential. As you put together the information to complete the application, the resume process causes you to look at your skills and experience in a way completely different from your comfortable position. As you start to transfer the skills and experience that outwardly fit the position, you may start to see other things you've done since your last resume. Because of your current job guidelines, you may not have realized the extra skills you've picked up, which were indicating that you were ready for something more. You were too comfortable in focusing on the outcome of the reliable paycheck to ever pay attention. People don't take advantage of us, as much as, we just don't pay enough attention to ourselves in a credible way. The outcomes aren't as important as what you gain and learn about yourself along the way.
You have to start thinking like a leader or creator of your reality, and less like the outsider or underdog in your own world. Get uncomfortable in this situation. Sometimes, the universe will shake up your world for this very purpose, as the guidance was to assist this process. Once you are finally awake, you're ready for a powerful and true outcome worthy of your heart's valuable contributions and leadership. Don't wrestle against the plan to mold you into a better version of fulfillment and happiness! You are loved too dearly to ever let you stand still in such blandness. If doing something alone does not make a difference or brings unfavorable results, then get back up by asking for help from persons qualified to help you see yourself in the likeness of your Creator's vision of you. The plan is to inspire you to discover the best possibilities to make the progress you seek. Trust and believe in yourself and your intuition. You have strengths and power yet to be unleashed. Now is the time to forge them! May the Source be with you always!
Last weekend I went to go see Bridget Jones' Baby. I have followed each and every one of of the movies. I am already waiting in suspense for the next one! While I was watching the movie, twice there were scenes where Bridget is in Greenwich Park. Each time my heart jumped. Why? Well it was really quite weird. It is because I knew someone who actually sat in almost the same spot as where she was sitting! I have never been to London so for me at that point I could actually see what this person must have seen when they were sitting there. It was like I was looking through Bridget Jones' (Renee Zellweger) eyes!! I felt as if I was sitting there too... I loved the movie! This is the soundtrack - FABulous!!
I love listening to music in the car while on my way to a meeting, as I feel it helps me to prepare for the day that waits. I think it is like the memoirs to my life as it has been there throughout everything with me. Music is one of the most important and powerful things in my life. My life without melodies and harmonies would be totally empty. Listening to different songs helps me to de-stress, relax and it can also help to motivate me in trying times. I believe music has the ability to convey all sorts of emotion. Whether the emotion is joy and happiness or sadness and despair through rhythms, harmonies and the lyrics music shows it. The effect that music can have on our emotions is tremendous, as it can bring people to floods of tears or bursts of laughter. Music has the ability to transport me back in time just like a time machine. It lets me revisit lost and forgotten moments in life. To me music is more than just something to listen to, it’s something to feel. Driving off this morning to a meeting I had Metallica on the radio. Their song "Nothing Else Matters". The acoustics are just so amazing as well as the lyrics. I cannot explain the emotions that ran through me! Then to end the day I was taken back in time with Pat Benatar on the radio, belting out "All Fired Up". Just so awesome! Trust me, you don't want to know me when I start singing along - teeheeheee.
