I Am Perfect The Way I Am

I was not made to be able to handle everything that life throws at me because I do get upset when I am in terrible situations. I was not made to be happy and smiling all the time because I do cry when I am emotionally worked up. I do get mad at people who stab me in the back. I also hurt when my very own friends do things that break my heart. I am not supposed to be standing tall everyday because I do stumble and fall. But YES, when I am done with all this I do learn lessons from the punches that are thrown at me. They challenge me and help me to become emotionally strong and I am ready to face it all with a brave heart. So, I can proudly say that I am perfect the way I am and I refuse to change anything about me.

The One

Be with the one that makes you happy. The one that makes you smile. The one that makes you laugh, and each day worth while. Live life for the moment, try hard to make it last because life is so short, it goes by so fast. So when you find love, don't let it slip away. Hold it forever and cherish it each day. As long as you are happy that is what you should do. Love that someone and let them know before your life is through.

Love Is A Verb

It's an action requiring your involvement and your active participation. You cannot sit back and expect the world will serve it to you. You cannot expect that your relationship will continue to provide love while you're not putting in any effort. Love has to be earned and must be continually fought for.

Some Advice For The Guys Out There

“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyse and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.”

Sunsets and Sunrises

Our lives are blessed with one new day after another. That's why we have sunsets and sunrises. Each new day brings a fresh chance to start doing things differently. If we can't seize that opportunity, we can grab the next. Or, if we prefer, we can use nature's generosity as an excuse for laziness. We can keep putting everything off till tomorrow...until there really are no tomorrows left for us.

Soulmates

Not everyone believes in soulmates. I do. I believe that there is one person, in this world, who is made specifically to complete another person. And when you find that one person, he will complement you perfectly. He will be with you when you're the happiest and the saddest. He will protect you, spoil you and pamper you. He will know what you're about to say while you're thinking it. And you will chip away parts of yourself to fit with each other perfectly. That's when you know what a soulmate is. That's when you suddenly realise what you've been waiting for your entire life. There's little more you can ask for. A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are, we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we're safe in our own paradise....Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.

The Best vs The Most Expensive

In our modern materialistic world, we often equate 'the best' with 'the most expensive'. But, though the best things in life are not always free, they are rarely as costly as some of the more outrageously priced alternatives. Once we stop measuring value in financial terms and look at human qualities like integrity, loyalty, sympathy and intelligence, we soon realise that these are factors which nobody can ever put a price on, which all of us can afford to prioritise.

Two Wrongs Never Make A Right

Two wrongs never make a right. We all instinctively understand this. We don't even need to have it taught to us. It is just so obvious. Yet how often do we hear people justifying bad behaviour with phrases like, 'Well, they deserve this after what they did.' Or, 'What I'm doing now, isn't half as bad as what so-and-so has done.' These so-called excuses don't actually excuse anything. Shouldn't everything in your life be happening in accordance with the highest possible standard? You have the power to set this and stick to it.

Moving Heaven And Earth

When you say that you are going to do something, you do it. If circumstances conspire to prevent you, you will move heaven and earth. There may be times when it is simply impossible but you don't ever give up without a fight. All of which is deeply laudable. But one slight side-effect of being born blessed with such determination is that, once in a while, you will find yourself striving to accomplish something that isn't actually so important. Don't waste precious determination on an irrelevant objective.

Realisation

A funny thing happens to people who have realised that they love one another. They find their capacity to care is seemingly limitless. Even if, prior to this realisation, a person or situation hardly mattered, now things are different. Love and concern are not the only emotions that can be 'self-replenishing'. Our reserves of compassion, patience, tolerance and kindness are inexhaustible if we only allow them to be. Decide how much you love someone or something. Only through love will you find the strength you need.

It's Amazing To Find Love

One of the most amazing things is to find love in the middle of all the mess in your life. It’s rewarding when you find someone who sees the beauty in your soul when you are broken and shattered. Someone who trusts you and sees the potential in you. If you find someone who loves you unconditionally in this utterly chaotic world and accepts you with all your flaws just love him with all you have and never let him go.

At Times The Morning

At times the morning is the way of God saying “one more time, go make a difference, touch one’s heart, encourage one’s mind, inspire one’s soul and enjoy the rest of the day”

Every Woman Needs A Man

A Woman doesn’t need a perfect man. All she needs is someone she can trust and who won’t be cheating on her physically or emotionally behind her back. Every woman needs a man who loves her immensely and will never play games with her heart. And last but not the least she needs a man who is willing to stay in a relationship with her faithfully for the rest of his life.

Boundaries And Barriers

We all need boundaries and barriers. Without these, our lives soon lack structure and meaning. If we allow too many of them to spring up in our subconscious, they end up forming a fortress from which we hardly ever dare venture. 'No' is a potent word. We must mean it when we say it and, we must be careful about how often we utter it. Reconsider some of the distinctions and definitions you established in the past. Some lines should remain firmly drawn but you can make others more flexible.

ABOUT SCORPIO WOMAN

(extract taken from – the12houses.com)

The beauty of a Scorpio woman is exceptional, mysterious and totally magnetic. She knows that and is proud of herself. She will control her wish to dominate and will let a man lead in a relationship, at least during courtship. She knows how to hypnotize a man and gets successful, more often than not. Don’t expect a Scorpio female to rush into your arms in front of a thousand people and shout her feelings at the top of her voice. Instead, she will come close to you, glance at you in a sensual way and whisper the most romantic words in a seductive tone.

If you are not sincere with your feelings, don’t even try to get close to a Scorpio girl. With those beautiful, penetrating eyes of hers, she can read exactly what is on your mind. She can easily make out your real intentions, so Don’t Flirt. It will amount to insulting her and I assure you, insulting her is not at all good for your health. Even when her tone is soothing, her disposition kind and her smile generous, she can be planning the most powerful retaliation. When a Scorpio woman is insulted or gets hurt, her fury knows no bounds.

Then, she can become the most hard-hearted and most sarcastic person on this earth. If she loves with fierce devotion, she hates with devastating malice. If you are really in love with her, then you need to know more about her. She has a very hypnotic gaze and the moment her eyes meet yours, you will go tumbling down in her deep passion. Being noticed by a Scorpio female definitely gives a boost to a man’s ego. She needs a man who is stronger than she is and weakness in him won’t get her sympathy at all.

He will be expected to behave like a real man, who can dominate her and make her proud. At the same time, he should respect her individuality. He should be a person  with an intellect, philosophical and totally masculine. He must also be ambitious and able to handle tough situations with poise. After she gets committed, a Scorpio female will shower you with all her love and attention. Her whole life will start revolving around you and she will be extremely loyal and exceedingly passionate.

She is passionate with everything that is related to her. It is almost impossible for her to have neutral feelings. Either she will deeply cherish or fiercely hate. If any of the feelings are not experienced, she will become completely indifferent towards it. Scorpio women, however, never let these feelings show. Her expression will always remain neutral, betraying nothing. Her anger is very bad and it’s better to get out of her way when it gets out of hand. Her characteristics profile will make her storehouse of secrets, but people wouldn’t know any of hers.

Her personal life will be out of bounds for everyone. At the same time, she will never tell the secrets that have been confided in her, not even to you. Even with you, she will have a private part and it’s better not to pry. That does not mean she is dishonest. In fact, she will be so brutally honest that, at times, she may hurt people in the process. Like a typical Scorpio, she will choose her friends very carefully and the credible ones will remain with her throughout her life. She will never maintain a relationship with unworthy people.

Determination and will power are her basic personality traits. She can use them anytime to come out of anything that is negative. If you have been able to win the true love of a Scorpio female, you can be sure you will never feel lonely again. She will be totally devoted to you and even if you two don’t get married for any reasons beyond your control, her love for you will not change. She is one of those who believe in the phrase ‘Till Death Do Us Part’. Rather than overshadowing her husband, she believes in supporting him.

‘Behind every successful man, there is a woman’; this idiom is perfect in case of the husband who has a Scorpio wife. For her, the future, the happiness and the dreams of her husband hold the supreme importance. She will always defend him fiercely in public and won’t take nicely to anyone taking advantage of him. She will always encourage him to reach for the stars, build his courage and never let him turn back from midway. Scorpio women love their homes and keep them spic and span.

Now comes the dangerous part. A Scorpio girl is extremely jealous and fiercely possessive of her loved ones. She is prone to suspicions; so don’t give reasons to be doubtful of you. On the other hand, you will have to control your jealousy, since she will be attracting a lot of members of the opposite sex. She also dislikes being possessed by anyone, including you. In such a scenario, just remember that a Scorpio woman will always be loyal and devoted to you, even in the worst of circumstances.

And then, you know you cannot leave her and it is better to adjust to such a trifle thing. Nobody walks away from a Scorpio, right? As far as money is concerned, she will enjoy it whether she saves it in a piggy bank or splurges it on luxurious things. She is very conscious of her social standards and will never compromise in case of status. She likes power and will sacrifice money and many other things for it. She seems to be very practical, but inside she is very emotional. Like all Scorpios, she will not see any viewpoint in case of her own emotions.

A Scorpio female has a sense of fairness and justice. If you don’t wish her good morning one day after a fight, she will do the same for the next four days. The same goes for generosity also. If you do one kind deed for her, she will do four in return. As a mother, she will extremely possessive of her children and will care for them. However, she may not express her love openly and this is something you will have to teach her. She will make them independent, fair, strong and proud of themselves, the way she is of them. She will encourage them to develop their innate talents and make sure they don’t go unnoticed.

A Scorpio woman can drown you in her passion. But then, she can also bring you to safety when the raft becomes too dicey. She can provide you her calm and steady support in the worst of circumstances. Once you win her love, you will never be lonely again. Your food will be perfectly baked and she will grind fresh coffee for you. You will always come back to a spotless home, radiating with the aura of her magnetic personality, the charm of her deep beauty and the warmth of her everlasting love!

You Never Lose By Loving

You never lose by loving. You lose by holding back. Nothing in this world is impossible until you refuse to give it a chance.

Shadows Of The Past

Do not let the shadows of your past darken the doorstep of your present and future. Let go, forgive and move forward. Just because the past didn’t turn out like you had hoped, doesn’t mean your future can’t be better than you had envisioned. In fact, we often grow stronger in the places we were once broken. Because it’s not until you’re broken for a while that you truly learn what you’re made of on the inside. And this insight gives you the ability to rebuild yourself, stronger than ever before.

 

Love Is Our True Destiny

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.

I'm A Very Ordinary Person

I am a very ordinary person. I don’t need much…no valuable gifts…no materialistic things…All I need is love, a little time, care and undivided attention…I don’t want to be lied to or cheateded on…also not compared to anyone because I am one of a kind.

Pride And Dignity

Pride is a funny thing. Often, it stands between us and the thing we want most in the world. It fools us. It persuades us that what we want, even more than our heart's desire, is our dignity! Oh yes, dignity. What a terribly important thing that is. Without it, we cannot eat or love or be creative or be successful. Ummm...or can we? Dignity has no such value. It affords no rewards. Still, though, we let it colour our judgement. 

Good Morning

If every morning, you can find a reason to say,
“Yes, it’s going to be a beautiful day.”

And every day, you find a reason to say,
“Yes, it is a beautiful day.”

And every night, you find a reason to say,
“Yes, it was a beautiful day.”

Then one day, you’ll look back and easily say,
“Yes…It was a beautiful life.”
Good Morning

In Two Months It Will Be December

In two months it will be December.
Think about that . . . now think of all the things you were going to do in the beginning of the year. What did you promise yourself? More adventures, more risks, more thrills, more fun – a better you?

And how has that worked out? If you are anything like most of your friends it’s probably not gone according to plan and you are now slightly alarmed and downright surprised that we’ve reached this point of the year already.

Well cheer up, there’s no point in wondering what happened to your time. Rather, take this opportunity to look at the 90 odd days ahead before we usher in 2014 and do what you can with the time available.

Don't Misunderstand A Woman

Don’t misunderstand a woman when she loves you with all her heart and soul. If she fights with you and then cries and says sorry it doesn’t mean she is weak - it’s because she values the relationship she shares with you and she thinks you are worthy of being together. Don’t get angry with her when she is jealous of your friends because maybe it means she loves you too much and she can’t see you spending your time with anyone other than her. Don’t get irritated when she is possessive because maybe she wants to explain that you are her world and she cannot share you with anyone else. Don’t ignore her if she is nagging for silly things because maybe she needs your attention. If you love a woman don’t ignore her - show her that you care for her. When a woman gets attention from her man and feels appreciated for her little things, she can love him back in a million ways and much more than you can even imagine in your wildest dreams…

You Can Heal Your Life With Positive Affirmations

We are each 100% responsible for all of our experiences. Every thought we think is creating our future. The point of power is always in the present moment. Everyone suffers from self-hatred, guilt and resentment which are very damaging patterns. Releasing resentment will dissolve even cancer. We must release the past and forgive everyone. We must be willing to begin to learn to love ourselves. Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the key to positive changes. Put another way, our subconscious mind accepts whatever we choose to believe. They both mean that what I believe about myself and my life becomes true for me. What you choose to think about yourself and life becomes true for you. We have unlimited choices about what we can think. When we know this, then it makes sense to choose “Everyone is always helpful” rather than “People are out to get me”.

Whenever we are ill we need to search our hearts to see who it is we need to forgive. Forgiveness means giving up and letting go. It has nothing to do with condoning behaviour. It’s just letting the whole thing go. We do not have to know HOW to forgive. All we need is to be WILLING to forgive. The Universe will take care of the “how’s”. People have a lot of problems – it could be poor health, lack of money, unfulfilling relationships, or stifled creativity – whatever the issue is can only be resolved or dissolved with LOVING the self. I find that when we really love and accept and APPROVE of ourselves exactly as we are, then everything in life works. It’s as if little miracles are everywhere. Our health improves, we attract more money, our relationships become much more fulfilling, and we express ourselves in creatively fulfilling ways. All this seems to happen without our even trying. Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the main keys to positive changes in every area of our lives. We must however first address the issues that caused us to feel that we could not have self-approval or self-acceptance and that all goes back to our beliefs. Whatever we believe becomes true for us. If you have a sudden financial disaster, then on some level you may believe you are unworthy of being comfortable with money, or you believe in burdens and debt. Or if you believe that nothing good ever lasts, do you believe that life is out to get you or “I just can’t win”. If you seem unable to attract a relationship, you may believe “Nobody loves me” or “I am unlovable”. Perhaps you fear being dominated as your mother was or you think “People just hurt me”. If you have poor health you may believe “Illness runs in our family” or even “I was born to suffer” or “It’s just one thing after another”. Perhaps you are not even aware of your belief. Many people are not, they just see their outer circumstances as being the way the cookie crumbles. Until you realise the connection between the outer experiences and the inner thoughts, you remain a victim for life.

PROBLEM                                                                                            BELIEF

Financial disaster                                                                              I am not worthy of having money

No friends                                                                                           Nobody loves me

Problems with work                                                                       I’m not good enough

Always pleasing others                                                                  I never get my way

Whatever the problem is, it comes from a thought pattern, and thought patterns can be changed! Ask yourself “What kinds of thoughts am I having that create this?”. If you allow yourself to sit quietly and ask this question, your inner intelligence will show you the answer.

Are you one of the many people who will get up in the morning, see that it is raining, and say “Oh, what a lousy day!” It is NOT a lousy day. It is only a wet day. If we wear the appropriate clothing and change our attitude, we can have a lot of rainy day fun. If it is really our belief that rainy days are lousy days, then we will always greet rain with a sinking heart. We will fight the day rather than flow with what is happening in the moment. If we want a joyous life, we must think joyous thoughts. If we want a prosperous life, we must think prosperous thoughts. If we want a loving life, we must think loving thoughts. Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form.

The point of power is always in the present moment. It does not matter how long we have had a negative pattern or an illness or a poor relationship or lack of finances or self-hatred. We can begin to make a shift today! What you are now choosing to believe and think and say will create the next moment and the next day and the next month and the next year. You are the power in your world! You get to have whatever you choose to think.

Stop for a moment and catch your thought. What are you thinking right now? If it is true that your thoughts shape your life, would you want what you were just thinking right now to become true for you? If it’s a thought of worry or anger or hurt or revenge or fear, how do you think this thought will come back to you? If you find yourself expressing negative words of any sort, stop in midsentence, either rephrase the sentence of just drop it. You could even say to it “Out”.

To change your beliefs use positive affirmations daily. Say them over to yourself whenever you can. Even write them out ten times at night before going to bed. You will note a remarkable shift.  Some examples of affirmations you could use:

I am healthy.

I am healed.

I am loved.

I am wealthy.

I am extremely successful.