It's Not What You Do...

It's not what you do, it's the way that you do it. Or so we are told. Up to a point, this statement is true - but only up to a point. If you are doing something truly dreadful it really won't matter how you do it. Style may temporarily triumph over substance but, in the long run, substance will always have the last word. So, in your emotional life now, you really do need to think carefully about the choice that is now in front of you. What looks good is really not important. It's what feels right that counts.