Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Heading For A Happy Outcome

Isn't it interesting how often times when things look as if they're going to be problematic then just at the right moment things begin to work out well. If you could see, long in advance, that you're heading for a happy outcome, you wouldn't get the same sense of triumph and relief when it finally arrived. So, can you take your current high level of concern about a sensitive matter as a sign that, probably, all will be fine? I believe so. Especially if you have a good friend that you can turn to. Someone you know that can be an invaluable source of inspiration, a big influence, a bundle of positive thinking and bravery. Sometimes with all that you're facing, it's good to have them in your corner. They can give you some insight as to how to get through the trials ahead? It certainly helps to get a different perspective on matters rather than trying to deal with them on your own. Actually, there's much you can achieve. There are prizes on offer and finish lines in sight. Find an encouraging co-pilot, and you'll cross them all the faster.

Saturday, September 24, 2016

Enjoy The Ride

Why is it that we always seem to focus on the future? On what is yet to come and on what is yet to be. It is no wonder then that our lives are just flashing by us like a fast car. One minute it is Easter and the next we have Christmas looming ahead! If we are so prone to living for what is to come then why not open the book on the last page? Or download a TV series and watch it backwards from the final episode? Why follow the story from the start? All we're ever going to find out is what happened, so, surely the sooner we make that discovery, the sooner we can be satisfied with the end result? There. That illustrates the consequences of trying to think too hard about what lies ahead for now. We're not at the end...we're just at the start. We need to stop projecting into the future and just enjoy the ride in the here and now. Live in the now. Enjoy each day as it comes!

Friday, September 23, 2016

Subconscious Urges

The subconscious mind is a powerful thing. Not many of us are even aware just how powerful! Your subconscious mind is like a huge memory bank. Its capacity is virtually unlimited. It permanently stores everything that ever happens to you.Your subconscious mind makes everything you say and do fit a pattern consistent with your self-concept, your master program. It does not think or reason independently, it merely obeys the commands it receives from your conscious mind. Just as your conscious mind can be thought of as the gardener, planting seeds, your subconscious mind can be thought of as the garden, or fertile soil, in which the seeds germinate and grow. Your conscious mind commands and your subconscious mind obeys.Your subconscious can therefore be your greatest ally! We are all led inwardly by deep subconscious urges. Profound, primeval passions just aren't polite. The subconscious mind just doesn't care if they're socially acceptable. It scoff's at our efforts to suppress them. It is determined to set our schedules. Now, some controversial questions. What do you dream of? What's causing an emotional commotion? Acknowledge and pursue these hopes, these emotions. They can move you in a very positive direction! It is the perfect time to regain your balance, to straighten out whatever in your life is out of line and to make a new start.

Sunday, September 18, 2016

The Aftertaste

Sometimes we need to stir things up. Sometimes we're rudely shaken out of a comfortable ride. The path to fulfillment isn't all sunshine and rainbows...we all eat pavement or gravel once in a while. Is it pleasant? No. Will it ultimately be good for us? Yes. Then how should we greet these unappealing appetisers? You'll inevitably face a choice of whether you react to a development with a smile and a flourish or a grunt and a grimace. Now's the time to kill with kindness and disarm with charm. Let a laugh pass your lips and you'll be pleasantly surprised by the aftertaste.


Numerologists tell us that life is about numbers. If we can only understand natural sequences, we can gain spectacular insight into the secrets of the universe. Accountants also think life comes down to numbers. If our balance sheet is healthy, all's well. If there's a deficit, all is bad. But life is not all about numbers. It's about hearts and souls, love, passion and inspiration. Look carefully at what the numbers in your life are telling you. They could just bring an abundance of what really counts.

Monday, September 5, 2016

Hiding Behind A Mask

I have to sit here and wonder about some people. I have had quite a few friend requests in the past from people I do not know. Now, being me, and being a Scorpio on top of that, I do not easily open up to people that I do not know. It takes me time to suss someone out and it takes me time to feel comfortable enough to trust someone and then be prepared to open up to them. That is just me. So now when I think back to these people that I do not know who send me friend requests. They are so upfront by asking me for my e-mail address and phone number so that they can chat more with me. Ummmm...why? You sent me a friend request on FB. We can chat there. Why must we at this stage take it to another platform? Then they seem to proceed to keep wanting to know more about me. I however feel it is a "give and take" situation. You ask me something - and I will answer. I then ask you something - and EXPECT an answer...but yet often times these answers are just avoided. This person just is not forthcoming...or will completely evade the question I asked. Then I have a look at their profiles. Mostly there are no friends to show or no friends have liked any pics they have posted. The pics are often so random or are just a few profile pics. Nothing else. No quotes. No status updates. Nothing. Then I look at photos. There are no albums. There are no personal photos. No family members. So being me. I think to myself - why? Then the best is the majority of these people have their relationship status as "Widow". Now, I am very sad for those who have lost their spouse to widowhood. But,  a widow is a WOMAN whose spouse has died, while a WIDOWER is a man in that situation. So I now have to wonder, surely you as a man should know the difference. Then it amazes me that these people will say that they are from a surrounding area close to me but yet they went to University in Russia or some random University in some never heard of place! Then the next best thing is that they are all mostly Petrochemical Engineers! What is it about me that I attract all these Petrochemical Engineers. Inevitably they are all on some contract in either Cape Town or Richards Bay. The best is those that always ensure they have a profile pic with a child. Its like they think this will give them extra brownie points or something. My point with all of this is...DUDE I KNOW you are NOT who you are saying you are! I am not just some dumb blonde!! I have the potential to see through your facade! My question to you is WHY are you hiding behind someone else's name? WHY are you not posting a photo of who you REALLY are? What is it that you have to hide? You say you want to get to know me better. You say you are an honest person. REALLY???!!! You actually BELIEVE you are an honest person when you have stolen someone else's name and someone else's photo? Do you even know that that is called Identity theft and you can be arrested for that? I am very open to meeting new people but if you are going to be pretending you are someone else, well, sorry for you, then I do NOT have time for you! You see I am so tired of all the bull shit and the lies. I have had that so often in my life that I can see it from a mile away!! However, IF you can be an honest person by just being who you are and not hide behind a fake name and profile, I will most gladly be your friend. I do not judge people who are honest about who they really are. Every one deserves to have friends. I however am only open to friends who are genuine and real.